posted September 28, 2022 02:12 PM            

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Originally posted by Stawr:

@Librapurr: Yeah wanting to name the child after the mistress makes it extra low.

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OMG I an not following on your convo but just read this, horrifying. Brought to you by Life is weird and The human experience.

So I am going on a date with another Libra guy today. We are going axe throwing and then to the movies to watch a thriller called Smile.

He has venus in virgo conjunct my DC ruler and Mars in Saggy conjunct my AC ruler, I never knew until this year that venus in virgo was a match for me but it does conjunct my DC ruler so it makes sense, lots of venus in virgo folks this year for me, huh I suppose tr uranus trining my DC ruler has something to do with it come to think of it!

Tr Mars conjunct Northnode exact
Tr Venus in Virgo conjunct my SUN

My new motto as of today is "every day is a new adventure" with the transits I have to my venus and dc ruler I need to go with the flow and not get attached to any outcome and just have some fun.

I have realized that I have not been adjusting truly to this transition to being single and have been psychologically resisting change and holding on to the past and old patterns to my past. I mean is a big adjustment to leave a 15 year relationship and I have been having a harder time with the adjustment than I was aware of.

I was still going to do errands further away were I use to live, I haven't been nesting as much as I need to and avoiding making my space truly truly mine and settling in so it feels cozy. I started to date Scott and is like I was just subconsciously trying to continue being married through him.

So yesterday I went to eat close by, I went to supermarket close by, in other words I started 4 months in to take the initiative to get acquainted with my area, a few days ago I bought a coffee table and side table that should arrive next week to continue settling in my apartment and making my space my own instead of waiting to get a new boyfriend subconsciously to make more purchases bc for 15 years I got used to making decisions like that with a partner. All these little things that show I was resisting change even though I created this change and initiated it. Scott was essentially a symptom of me not adjusting well to this transition and not letting go of the past.

I got myself this weekend a Herkimer diamond quartz which is a high frequency gemstone and I think along with the energy work I got done it has helped me get a lot of clarity and perspective on things. I also finally got me a moldavite ring and a cavansite ring. All perfect stones to help me with were I am at, the crystals choose you. Got a nice heart piece of Apatite too to help with my overactive heart chakra.

Anyways I am going to resume dating but will approach it in a casual chill way bc my focus the rest of the year will be me and loving myself FIRST and adjusting to this new phase of my life, I am not ready for a relationship yet, next year at some point I might be.

My new motto is also "I am sacred." I thought of that yesterday and tr venus was conjunct exact my sun in virgo at 28 degrees. Good transit for self love really.

posted September 28, 2022 02:17 PM            

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Originally posted by Librapurr:
Is it still Jupiter rx? I watched some newbie YouTube guru. Even I couldn’t help to roll my eye half of the time, some was useful. She sounded pretty Jupiter. She said the secret is to be detached and not identify yourself with rs or friendships, and nothing lasts forever. Even she sounded too selfish at some points. I think that was my goal at some points.
Sometimes people find hard to relate to me because I often try to avoid identifications. But she says it works for her perfectly.

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posted September 28, 2022 02:20 PM            

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Originally posted by Stawr:
I am so over just about everything being in retrograde.

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posted September 28, 2022 03:42 PM            

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Originally posted by hypatia238:
OMG I an not following on your convo but just read this, horrifying. Brought to you by Life is weird and The human experience.

So I am going on a date with another Libra guy today. We are going axe throwing and then to the movies to watch a thriller called Smile.

He has venus in virgo conjunct my DC ruler and Mars in Saggy conjunct my AC ruler, I never knew until this year that venus in virgo was a match for me but it does conjunct my DC ruler so it makes sense, lots of venus in virgo folks this year for me, huh I suppose tr uranus trining my DC ruler has something to do with it come to think of it!

Tr Mars conjunct Northnode exact
Tr Venus in Virgo conjunct my SUN

My new motto as of today is "every day is a new adventure" with the transits I have to my venus and dc ruler I need to go with the flow and not get attached to any outcome and just have some fun.

I have realized that I have not been adjusting truly to this transition to being single and have been psychologically resisting change and holding on to the past and old patterns to my past. I mean is a big adjustment to leave a 15 year relationship and I have been having a harder time with the adjustment than I was aware of.

I was still going to do errands further away were I use to live, I haven't been nesting as much as I need to and avoiding making my space truly truly mine and settling in so it feels cozy. I started to date Scott and is like I was just subconsciously trying to continue being married through him.

So yesterday I went to eat close by, I went to supermarket close by, in other words I started 4 months in to take the initiative to get acquainted with my area, a few days ago I bought a coffee table and side table that should arrive next week to continue settling in my apartment and making my space my own instead of waiting to get a new boyfriend subconsciously to make more purchases bc for 15 years I got used to making decisions like that with a partner. All these little things that show I was resisting change even though I created this change and initiated it. Scott was essentially a symptom of me not adjusting well to this transition and not letting go of the past.

I got myself this weekend a Herkimer diamond quartz which is a high frequency gemstone and I think along with the energy work I got done it has helped me get a lot of clarity and perspective on things. I also finally got me a moldavite ring and a cavansite ring. All perfect stones to help me with were I am at, the crystals choose you. Got a nice heart piece of Apatite too to help with my overactive heart chakra.

Anyways I am going to resume dating but will approach it in a casual chill way bc my focus the rest of the year will be me and loving myself FIRST and adjusting to this new phase of my life, I am not ready for a relationship yet, next year at some point I might be.

My new motto is also "I am sacred." I thought of that yesterday and tr venus was conjunct exact my sun in virgo at 28 degrees. Good transit for self love really.

BTW it may seem like I am going out there looking for libra men but I am not LOL, it really is a coincidence.

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Yeah, I know some people can get past an infidelity, but finding out the guy wants to name the kid after the mistress even if he was just "joking." I feel so bad for her, and their next child.

Amazing update!

That sort of inner work does not sound easy. I am glad you are making progress. That sounds like an awesome date night.

I gotta say Venus in Virgo is currently conjunct my husband's ASC. I notice that I am more in awe when I look at him.

I am trying to practice more self love lately. I am feeling super off. I got my hair trimmed today with the wash and dry. It really made a difference.

I found a new age shop where I am staying right now. I got my sister a sacred bath book. My friend some zodiac candles for her family. I learned that their other location has the gem candle holders. I have been having the hardest time finding them! I need to go to their store that is about an hour away.

I've been working with my citrine necklaces lately.

I need to have Libras in my life since I have no Libra in my chart.

I get that about saying I'm scared. Sometimes we just need to face it. I've had to say to my self a few times "I don't know what to do" to address my feelings. To be more at peace with it.

posted September 28, 2022 04:54 PM            

He just texted that his phone was busted and he just got a new phone today! so that is why I had not heard from him.

posted September 29, 2022 03:05 AM            

had a nice time but not interested, didn’t feel
that spark….

dated so many libras this year but to be fair have only slept with one of them, only one I had that strong chemistry with Scott…he has my heart.

posted September 29, 2022 11:02 AM            

Making plans and reaching out to friends feels pointless during Mercury retrograde. I might reach out to one anyways. I am proud of myself for being better at reaching out to people. I don't want to cancel people if I reach out to them at a bad time. But I will say if I do reach out a few times and it's never a good time, I will eventually be like okay you reach out to be when you're up for it.

posted September 29, 2022 11:42 AM            

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Originally posted by hypatia238:
nothing lasts forever and be detached feels more like a statement that is coming from Saturn square Uranus IMHO but love this, thanks for sharing! the collective is struggling with saturn square uranus and what you shared we all need to hear right now.

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posted September 30, 2022 05:57 AM            

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Originally posted by Aries23Degrees:
Friend of mine is moving homes. He has Aqua Asc and transiting Uranus (by whole sign) is moving in his 4th house of Taurus.

What's interesting is that currently Jupiter in Aries is retro opposite his natal Venus in Libra (ruler of the 4th house).

Add to that, transiting Mars is square his natal Mars (ruler of the 3rd house of neighbours). And he got into a physical altercation with a neighbour this past weekend over a tyre slashing incident that occurred on his birthday(24th September).

Ven/Mars in Virgo are conjunct his natal Sun (ruling the 7th house) and situated in house 8. The incident that got him all hot and bothered was a disgruntled neighbour slashing 10 vehicle tyres because he didn't approve of the party.

7th is "open enemies". And 8th connected with 7th could suggest a suddnet incident that occurs which creates for us "open enemies"? 🤷🏿‍♂️

Will it lead to a court case ? For the tyres as well as for the subsequent assault? I can't say. Saturn is not on any planets in the 7th nor on the Sun. So maybe it'll just "go away"?👌🏿

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I was wrong. Saturn is transiting the angles. And anytime Saturn transits the angles, what should be "short and sweet" is dragged out. Plans that we had are delayed. There are disruptions, setbacks and even reversals for the time being that Saturn is stationed there.

Add to that, Uranus is also on the angles (specifically 4th house of living situation).So once again, delays and detours to plans involving the domestic front.

# When the party planners came to retrieve their things, one of the workers drove into the Estate gate. It was yet another stressful / inconvenient situation that he had to handle(Ura in 4th)🙆🏿‍♂️

His move to his own place was met with a delay. He has had to move in with his Mom. Its not ideal. But its all he has for the time being.(Uranus)

posted September 30, 2022 06:22 AM            

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Originally posted by Aries23Degrees:
A friend of mine and fellow Aries Asc got a job offer.

Mercury is retrograde in Lib 1 deg in house 7 and Jup is retrograde Ari in house 1(whole sign).

Now I am having the exact same transits on my end. So why isn't my life shook up? Well,the declinations are different for us. The devil is in the details.

Trans Merc is parallel his Mars(Asc ruler) and Trans Ven is parallel his Natal Moon(situated in 1st house but ruling the Ic). I don't have that.

Now take note that he has been sitting jobless for 4 years!!! So I had to look at an outer planet transit because this is not just a job he got after 2 months or something.

Ruler of his 6th house is Merc. Mercury is parallel and conj transiting Pluto tightly. I don't have this either.

So for him, this is a definitive change within the matters ruled by Mercury i.e his 6th house of work and 3rd house of siblings.

Mercury sits in his 10th house. So yes,it'll give him a clearer perspective of where his life is going. And since natal Jupiter in 10th also conjuncts transiting Pluto,it will likely impact the areas of life associated with Jupiter I.e the 9th house of belief systems/gurus and 12th house of isolation and loss.

Pluto Cap is parallel my Sun in Sag at the moment(as a fellow Asc in Aries).And my Sun is in 9th house of learning /foreign places ruling the 5th. So my learning is more towards 5th house matters of romance,self expression, creativity and hobbies etc. Something will happen in this area of life. Especially when faster moving transits also align.

I asked him what type of job it will be? And he said that it's administration centred(Merc).He will be working for a logistics company(Merc). And since Saturn rules his 10th and is situated in the 8th house of upheavals. It will be unpredictable/chaotic.This especially when Transiting Sat(first) and Uranus (2nd) aspect natal Sat.

My feelings(and I shared this with him) is that with Pluto involved by transit, there might be people he works with who have huge egos and are likely going to try to intimidate him.

Pluto likes control "over" things/people etc. And so in aspect to his Merc/Ju conj natally, much of what he says and does will be amplified. There may be a lot of sensitive information that he become privy to. And this may mean that there will be added control over what goes out and in and perhaps some level of micro-managing in the workplace.

Pluto-Merc(especially since Merc rules the 6th & 3rd)suggests conditioning of the mind to new patterns of thinking. Out with the old, in with the new. But it won't be easy as there is going to be resistance in letting entrenched patterns of thinking go.

So he will be trained in something new, be exposed to a new industry that he knows 0 about. There may be a lot of information that he will be expected to know or be trained by someone senior in knowledge(Jup rules his 9th house). And then be expected to keep up with the details of everything etc.

Trans Mars is also parallel his Ic and in his 3rd house in opposition to his natal Uranus in 8th. Uranus co-rules the 11th house. So unusual associations or friends with people who are completely "left field" to him. The environment may be fast paced /unpredictable with many changes that may erupt on arguments with groups ans associations (11th)and he may not get much peace right now.

This is especially since transiting Mars will retrograde in October this year and will be busy with his 3rd house until next year 2023. Mentally,he might get stressed. Mars parallel Ic in the 3rd connects his mental headspace(3rd) with emotional peace and well-being(Ic)

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There has been a little bit of a reversal of fortune here. I was completely blindsided by trans Nep in Pisces and trans Mars in Gem.

Both if these are conj/square his natal Venus/Mars (ruler of 7th/2nd and 1st/8th) respectively. The company turned out to be not all that ethical (Nep). Its workers have not been paid. And now, there is a strike occurring on the premises that has disrupted his start on the post.

posted October 03, 2022 11:02 AM            

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Originally posted by hypatia238:
[QUOTE]Originally posted by Stawr:
[b]I am so over just about everything being in retrograde.

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I feel like this transit will be over really this year, even in January I think it will be wide the square so probably won't feel it by then anymore but it will definitely be over in January so that alone should make us look forward to 2023![/B][/QUOTE]

That is so true. I feel like so many people are going through it in someway.

I have been having some serious issues with being present. This Uranus and Saturn are in the same degree as my moon sign.