posted August 26, 2022 11:46 PM            

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Originally posted by Stawr:
Jupiter rx
Saturn rx
Uranus rx
Neptune rx
Pluto rx
Chiron rx
NN rx

Accomplishing certain tasks has been super difficult and delayed.
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Originally posted by Stawr:
@librapurr very close conjunction still but I'm finally at a point where I feel like I can enjoy the fun side of it now. Oh hey Uranus goes rx today.

During the stationary rx I downloaded some sleep hypnosis tracks. I am hoping I can eventually sleep with out medicine.

With my husband's 17 degree Pluto it's been a little tricky for him to get back on his night shift sleep schedule. After his first night working, his sleep was disrupted by monthly pest spray and then house keeping.
Today is going better for him.

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posted August 28, 2022 11:35 AM            

My husband is getting fed up with my diva attitude when it's my time of the month.

I talked back to him a few minutes ago and he was like "don't start with me!"
I was just like "I haven't finished my coffee and I'm on day 3 of my period."

posted August 29, 2022 03:57 AM            

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Originally posted by hypatia238:
Keep us posted, it can totally lead to a relationship starting out of the blue too, maybe with someone unconventional.

How close is the opposition right now?
This transit will go on for a while.

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Lol. Definitely. I am always intrigued by Uranus transits 😁😁

Currently Uranus is at 18.54 degrees of Taurus and opposing my natal Venus at 17.24 in Scorpio.

Venus rules the 7th/2nd and (for whole signs sakes) sits in the 8th.

posted August 29, 2022 11:47 AM            

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Originally posted by hypatia238:
Its starting to feel more clear what is going on.
Like he has ruler of his AC and DC (venus conjunct mars) square jupiter conjunct uranus with Juno in the 1st.

He likes being in a relationship but doesnt like labels bc he likes to feel free and not tied down but he is also at the same time a relationship person with sun in libra in the 7th conjunct saturn and pluto and mercury his northnode ruler conjunct his DC in libra.

We are basically in a relationship but we haven't labeled it.
We make plans for the future and hang out all the time.
I guess is like an unconventional relationship we are in but we are not seeing other people yet is not explicit we cannot see other people but we choose to just see each other and neither of us are really looking around.

Is like he likes to feel the freedom is there but he is a relationship person. LOL Does that make sense? That is what is becoming clear this week.

I recognize that I too start to feel trapped if things start to feel too conventional but I don't want to date multiple people either. That being said I have to admit that not having labels is probably what I need right now and for things to progress slowly on that end and this is why its working for me to be with him. We are similar in this way, the need to feel free but also being a relationship person at the same time so I dont need to push for anything and just acknowledge this is were I need to be right now and that is okay and go with the flow.

Come to think of it I was married and in a relationship that was labeled and defined but my needs were not getting met. Now I am in a relationship that is not labeled but my needs are being met, I can choose to get caught up in that is not labeled and make that a reason to feel upset and ruin something that is working for me or I can just embrace that maybe this is what works for me at least for now.

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“Is like he likes to feel the freedom is there but he is a relationship person. LOL Does that make sense?”
Oh, yeah😊
I also like to have at least some freedom. And even I have attraction to very Plutonic people. Often I feel to be suffocated and manipulated even in non romantic situations with them. But on the other side, I need security.

Probably, years of Uranus going through my points made me more open-minded, but I still cannot figure out many things.

Whatever works for you.

posted August 29, 2022 02:21 PM            

It passed over my 18.56 moon. I could feel it. I was starting to feel annoyed with my couples therapy being every Friday, and starting to feel like I don’t need to go as much when I want to start the weekend with my husband. But I did end up realizing I had some suppressed anger and resentment with my husband. I’ve brought it up before. But I realize I am so fed up with my husband being so shut down when I bring up issues or just getting angry at me, or saying sorry when he’s not because he just wants me to shut up.

It’s too the point where I have mood swings of I want a vacation from being married to him.

posted August 29, 2022 04:15 PM            

I've seen a reddit for women with ADHD, and feel like I've found my people. I read a post from someone who outlined what she did to get herself into a better headspace, and it sounded like what I've wanted to do, for a long time, but I never do it.

I'm feeling anxious about something in particular, but I don't want to talk about it.

posted August 30, 2022 12:44 PM            

I didn't feel all that well today. I spent time in bed sleeping. So my guess is that the Sun in Virgo parallel my Asc transit had a hand in that? Because i woke up feeling "off". And drank Cheyenne pepper ginger tea to recuperate👌🏿

posted August 30, 2022 06:50 PM            

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If I think correctly you’re not that long together so It might be still early, I know couple Aries who need to define relationships right away (personal planets and it’s mostly females. Males are not that edgy from my view. )
I hate to be rushed. They end up to go through 3 relationships while I’m still figuring out the first one lol

“Is like he likes to feel the freedom is there but he is a relationship person. LOL Does that make sense?”
Oh, yeah😊
I also like to have at least some freedom. And even I have attraction to very Plutonic people. Often I feel to be suffocated and manipulated even in non romantic situations with them. But on the other side, I need security.

Probably, years of Uranus going through my points made me more open-minded, but I still cannot figure out many things.

Whatever works for you.

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3 months now.

I mean I don't know what works for me LOL

I am just glad I ended my marriage bc that wasn't working and it was time and that my private practice is doing well, these two things I achieved at the age of 38 and need to feel good about that at least.

I think my love life will feel up in the air as long as saturn is opposing my venus which is also my 5th house ruler and as long as it is squaring tr uranus through my 5th while tr uranus is also trining my 7th house ruler.

posted August 30, 2022 11:55 PM            

"There is safety in the unknown, there is safety in me. I am making room for good things, freedom to live fully."

IDK what will come of it but I love my libra guy, he did sleep over the whole weekend from Friday to Monday this past weekend and that is when the new moon took place which HIT EXACT OUR VENUS CONJUNCT MARS IN THE 7TH WE HAVE IN OUR COMPOSITE AND DAVISON.

Interesting enough VENUS rules our IC in composite and davison so fitting the new moon inspired him to sleep over the whole weekend.

posted August 31, 2022 05:16 AM            

Is Jupiter not transiting your IC in Aries right now? I think this may indicate a lot of "action"(Mars rules Aries) at home(Ic)?😎

There is also the Merc opp transit of Lib to the IC from the MC axis. The focus(Mc) could be communication (Merc) within partnership (Lib) or clarity (Merc)in communicating with others (Lib)?🤔

I would watch that Merc/Jup opposition though. Merc will go retro and the two will be in an oppositional partnership until the 11th of October(the opp will be exact then by longitudinal aspect but by parallel declination, it will be the 27th/28th of September).

And then they will progressively separate from each other from the 13th onwards.

So Jup/Merc opposition has a tendency of reading far too much into something or seeing something that is not there.

Greater meaning (Jup) is inferred on small things (Merc). And sometimes one can see and go in a completely "other" direction than what the situation is really saying when the two are opposed. Watch out for this❤

An example is if one dissects a whatsapp message bit by bit to extract a "hidden" message. Or takes a simple note and expands on its "layered" meaning by discussing it with friends etc.

With this opp, there is defensiveness (Lib-Aries, Vir-Pis)and a general feeling of being "led on" if what one read of the communication signals is NOT what was actually being communicated .🙆🏿‍♂️

posted August 31, 2022 05:49 AM            

I am relieved that the bug was a brief stint. Feeling very well now. And ready to check up on outstanding relationships today (Moon in Libra in house 7).

I feel like with Mercury in Lib 7th (whole sign) and it later retrograding to 6th, there will be focus on the details (6th/Merc) of relationships (7th).

Jupiter is currently orbiting my 1st house(whole sign). So yes, there might be a need for me to watch how I communicate. It may come across to others as harsh(Arie) or sharp(Mars).

I mentioned defensiveness earlier. This is a manifestation of someone who feels "attacked". But may in actual fact not be aware that they are provoking (1st house Jup in Aries) others by starting the fights in the first place with what they say(Jup) and how they say it(Aries) etc.

posted August 31, 2022 11:06 AM            

I'm going to get groceries soon.
I hope to turn over at night at a decent time. Because I will be doing an online interactive professional development tomorrow at 8am. Since that is when my husband gets home and goes to sleep I plan on going to Starbucks to get it done and spoil myself with a latte. It's only for an hour.

I then have another one in the afternoon. I'll be fine to do that one at home.

One thing that is cringe about professional development is when they tell us to "take care of yourself."

I noticed many "self care" professional developments. Interesting. Self care is a big problem in the early childhood field. But also kind of funny that "Mindful Walking" counts as professional development. But it is also proactive that professional developments are seeing the urgency that staff has dealt with a lot, and could use some damn self regulation.

I also made a wise crack to my husband and got a bit of a chuckle out of him. Most of the trainings are free. But a few are not. Being a female dominated field, one of the professional developments was focused on "Gossip in the workplace" I think it was $7. I said "I'm not paying $7 dollars on something I'm not gonna stop doing."

posted September 01, 2022 09:43 AM            

I have another one at 1pm meaning I have a meeting at 12pm.

Moon trine Jupiter Cancer house 2
Neptune rx sextile Saturn Capricorn house 9
True Lilith transiting Leo house 3

posted September 01, 2022 12:56 PM            

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Originally posted by Aries23Degrees:
@hypatia238

Is Jupiter not transiting your IC in Aries right now? I think this may indicate a lot of "action"(Mars rules Aries) at home(Ic)?😎

There is also the Merc opp transit of Lib to the IC from the MC axis. The focus(Mc) could be communication (Merc) within partnership (Lib) or clarity (Merc)in communicating with others (Lib)?🤔

I would watch that Merc/Jup opposition though. Merc will go retro and the two will be in an oppositional partnership until the 11th of October(the opp will be exact then by longitudinal aspect but by parallel declination, it will be the 27th/28th of September).

And then they will progressively separate from each other from the 13th onwards.

So Jup/Merc opposition has a tendency of reading far too much into something or seeing something that is not there.

Greater meaning (Jup) is inferred on small things (Merc). And sometimes one can see and go in a completely "other" direction than what the situation is really saying when the two are opposed. Watch out for this❤

An example is if one dissects a whatsapp message bit by bit to extract a "hidden" message. Or takes a simple note and expands on its "layered" meaning by discussing it with friends etc.

With this opp, there is defensiveness (Lib-Aries, Vir-Pis)and a general feeling of being "led on" if what one read of the communication signals is NOT what was actually being communicated .🙆🏿‍♂️

Clarity and asking for the communicator to repeat what was said or reiterate and explain ambiguity etc. is really needed. This so as to avoid misunderstandings or reading the wrong signals🙏🏿

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I appreciate the warning! and will keep this in mind but am not reading too much into it, we are friends and lovers, we hang out 3 to 5 times a week, I sleep over sometimes and he sleeps over sometimes, he is not seeing anybody else and I am not seeing anybody else, he likes to take it slow and not jump into things and he does not like labels. I feel he has been pretty straight forward and so have I.

posted September 01, 2022 03:42 PM            

I have been feeling shift in energy the past few days but that could be my venus return but I am thinking it has to do with my solar return too.

There is definitely a lot of Leo/5th house energy in my solar return. Chart ruler SR VENUS is in the 5th which conjuncts my natal DC ruler and SR Sun in the 5th too with MOON IN LEO on the SR IC conjuncting my natal EROS. I feel this energy the last few days to just have fun and enjoy life very strongly and things that I was thinking about before don't seem important all of a sudden. Less overthinking and more just being.

posted September 02, 2022 01:23 PM            

One of Aries is having power and jealousy struggle with 9 years old. As a professional in power struggles with adults who never passed their puberty, I find it kinda funny. Aries moon could learn more patience and flexibility from it.

posted September 02, 2022 02:06 PM            

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3 months now.

I mean I don't know what works for me LOL

I am just glad I ended my marriage bc that wasn't working and it was time and that my private practice is doing well, these two things I achieved at the age of 38 and need to feel good about that at least.

I think my love life will feel up in the air as long as saturn is opposing my venus which is also my 5th house ruler and as long as it is squaring tr uranus through my 5th while tr uranus is also trining my 7th house ruler.

^^uncertainty, disruption, delays is probably the way my love life is supposed to be like right now but also I am supposed to feel free which I do so there is that. Having someone to hang out with regularly who I am also sleeping with is probably the best I can hope for right now with all these transits I am dealing with so I just need to enjoy it for what it is for now and let time pass, these transits pass and learn as much as I can from all of it.

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It’s awesome you can feel good and secure in yourself so you don’t need hold on relationships for a security reason.